Thursday, January 29, 2009

Together

A relationship is not only about romance.
I know i am on the early romance fringe of a relationship, tasting the sweetness for everything.
Dear, you and i. We, feel so sweet, we feel so hot, we feel so sticky...
But sooner or later you may (or may not, if i could hope so ^_^'') find my words are no longer as sweet, my acts are no longer as romantic..
I know we both will eventually come to a stage where we find the hotness being cold down inevitably, and we start to taste sourness, bitterness, etc.

Nevertheless, i believe we would like to go through all these bit by bit, step by step, side by side, together. Only going through both the good ones and the bad ones, we endure and develop a true relationship that will build us a home. As you have quoted the words of Master ShengYen "Both favourable and unfavourable conditions strengthen us; treat them with equanimity and gratitude." Of course, i believe it. Just like you are a pig, but also an angel. ^0^

Early Romance may always end so transiently like the twilight or the sunset. ^.^''
A relationship also means commitment and care.
A lasting commitment will bring us further to see the beauty of the ugliness. After early romance, we see our problems, we see our weaknesses, and we will be ... Facing it, accepting it, dealing with it, solving it, and loving it. And from within, onwards, we will start to enjoy a more complete form of love, spirit, hotness... and another level kind of romance.
Later then, we may find something totally different, that we have never come across, but so lovely to have braved ourselves to that and be doing that together.
We will find it out, together. ^_^

It is all about words here, for now. But it will be a journey that is so worth we brave ourselves to explore, to feel the joy, the sadness, the sorrow, the excitement, the happiness...
Such a belief will make us move.
And i know i am holding your hand. I am feeling your hand in my hand. ^___^
So, let's move on.

p/s: i love you, my dear.

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